Tuesday, December 4, 2007

How Disrespectful

It is always hard to deal with a death in the family. Such a life altering moment can break a person mentally and physically. The one thing you hope for is that the recently deceased finally rests in peace. Now going to one funeral a year I believe is one too many.

Now this here is an example of some inconsidorate if not ignorant actions. Now today I attended a funeral today for my close homie, his grandmother recently passed away, God Bless Her Soul. So the ceremony was proceding as usual. Now after all the prayers have been said and they were lowering the casket, a gentlemen out of nowhere and starts making a ruckes. First he started to create a commotion by screaming and stating "Hey I need to talk to you." He continued to speak in a loud voice about how long does he have to wait until his ceremony can begin. This guy was cussing at the worker of the cemetary and even at the pastor of our funeral. Some ladies were trying to calm the gentlemen down because he was screaming at a pastor and his reply was "He ain't my pastor." After many people were asking him to leave he to continued to scream and cuss the whole time he was leaving.

Your at a cemetary, a person is returning to the Earth. People are grieving and even crying, and you have the nerve to come up to their ceremony and create a scene. Give respect to the deceased, do you not care that someone has passed away? By far he was the loudest person I've ever heard in a cemetary. A cemetary is a final resting place and this guy was screaming and yelling like he was trying to wake them up. This person could've simply asked when our ceremony was going to end, the casket was being lowered, so the ceremony was going to be finished anyway. But he had to act inconsiderate and ignorant and acted the way he was. If he had a little patients, things would've ran more smoothly.

A lot of people I talked to wanted to cause some ruckes at the ceremony that person was at, but they realized they were better than that. Its better to turn the other cheek at a situation like that. So please, have a little patients. Just a little bit can go a long way. If he had a little patients, I wouldn't be blogging about this person right now.

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