Stop trying to find it, let it find you.

So I read a lot of materials lately, speaking about how if you don't think about finding a girl, you'll eventually find one. Which I now believe is true. I mean if you preoccupy your time being concerned about if your going to be with somebody. You'll never be with somebody. Because when your concerned, every action you do is affected. So when your trying to talk to some girl, and your too concerned about how you appear to the person, or how this might be the one. Pretty much your not going to get that girl, there will be a decision you make that'll fuck up everything. And the only thing you will think of is that one action you did to fuck up your chance with that one person that could've been something.

Now when you don't preoccupy your time trying to find a girl, basically it comes naturally. See when your not thinking about it, and your really active, it will eventually happen. Mainly because your not concerned about what the other person thinks. Your more concerned about doing your own thing. Thus, your not making any fucked up decisions where the person doesn't want to talk to her. And if you do fuck up, you don't care because your not concerned about what she thinks. Your more concerned about what you think.

And that really should be the mentality you should have. When you have the "I don't care" mentality. You can tackle a lot of things. It is true though, who cares what a girl you just met five minutes ago thinks compared to what you think. Now I know that it may sound a little hard at first, but once you get it. Everything becomes cake.

An example is a homie of mine, nowadays people are having sex at a early age. On average its during the high school days. My homie didn't get any till the middle of his college career. And when he did, he started bumping up his numbers quick. He said that once he got the mentality that "I'm just here to have a good time," things just came naturally.

Now there are folks out there who think that girls will come up to you, start the conversation and boom your going to get it. I find those people to be ignorant. Also, there are those folks out there who only go out if they know girls are there. That's the wrong mentality, that goes along the lines of being concerned if your going to get some that night. If you just have that going to have a good time mentality. It'll just happen.

So the number one rule: Don't be concerned about finding someone, they will find you naturally.

It's a law a nature you can't fight. For some reason it happens.


*Random thoughts

All my roommates talk about is sex, and this ain't no lie. Everyday, almost every moment if the tv isn't on. All they talk about is sex.

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